"what? no, not how it works i'm afraid. men are... excuse my language, fucking stupid. they don't know what they've got when it's right in front of them. it's almost like you know when you're in the refrigerator and you're looking for the milk? and you can't see it? and then someone else comes along and sees that it was right in front of you the whole time? it's like that! he's so used to having you around that he forgets how good he has it." she was almost a little too pleased with the analogy that she'd come up with; a smile blooming on her lips before quickly dissolving into something more serious. "you could never what? move on from a man that can't see you anymore? you deserve far better than that. though, i understand completely if you're not ready right now. i do think friends is a good place to start."